What do you say…
Dear jackass!!!
I can't believe that you would do something like this to your family. Wow you messed up. Big time! What you did was disrespectful to me and unforgivably hurtful to your family. You're the kind of guy that wrecks it for the rest of the truly nice guys in the world, because you make us NICE girls cynical and suspicious of every guy we meet! You obviously have no respect for your relationship or your family and I am reasonably sure you have very little respect for women in general. Well guess what, I (like your wife I hope) will not stand for this bullshit from men.
I realize that I didn't ASK you if you were married but I shouldn't have to. You certainly didn't ACT like you were married. When I asked you about your family you talked about your sister and her kids, your mom, your grandmother…. did it never once occur to you to mention your own kids at least????
Even if your relationship is rocky and ending (which if it wasn't I am sure it is now) you should still have been up front with me. You should have let me make a decision about whether or not I wanted to continue seeing you. I have to say though that I would have said no. I have zero interest in being involved with someone that is involved with someone else. I am not that girl.
I don't think I've been this mad at someone in a really long time. I don't even really know what to say and that's not usually a problem for me. I really liked you. I enjoyed spending time with you and was most definitely incredibly attracted to you. And was really looking forward to seeing you again. Now I am just completely disgusted with you…. thank god nothing serious happened between us!!!
I know I didn't do anything wrong in this situation (you did) and yet I feel like the biggest idiot in the world right now. I helped you cheat, even if I didn't know it, and that is probably the worst thing a woman can do do another woman. BTW I told your wife EVERYTHING and will continue to do so should she ever call me again and ask what happened. I don't want to see you or speak to you ever again. Kindly lose my number as yours has been deleted.
-Pissed, in Arlington!
Lesson for the single ladies reading. ASK explicitly if the guy you're dating is or has ever been married. Only the REALLY good liars will fool you - the rest aren't that smart. And no-one should have to get the 7am wake up call that I got this morning.
I can't believe that you would do something like this to your family. Wow you messed up. Big time! What you did was disrespectful to me and unforgivably hurtful to your family. You're the kind of guy that wrecks it for the rest of the truly nice guys in the world, because you make us NICE girls cynical and suspicious of every guy we meet! You obviously have no respect for your relationship or your family and I am reasonably sure you have very little respect for women in general. Well guess what, I (like your wife I hope) will not stand for this bullshit from men.
I realize that I didn't ASK you if you were married but I shouldn't have to. You certainly didn't ACT like you were married. When I asked you about your family you talked about your sister and her kids, your mom, your grandmother…. did it never once occur to you to mention your own kids at least????
Even if your relationship is rocky and ending (which if it wasn't I am sure it is now) you should still have been up front with me. You should have let me make a decision about whether or not I wanted to continue seeing you. I have to say though that I would have said no. I have zero interest in being involved with someone that is involved with someone else. I am not that girl.
I don't think I've been this mad at someone in a really long time. I don't even really know what to say and that's not usually a problem for me. I really liked you. I enjoyed spending time with you and was most definitely incredibly attracted to you. And was really looking forward to seeing you again. Now I am just completely disgusted with you…. thank god nothing serious happened between us!!!
I know I didn't do anything wrong in this situation (you did) and yet I feel like the biggest idiot in the world right now. I helped you cheat, even if I didn't know it, and that is probably the worst thing a woman can do do another woman. BTW I told your wife EVERYTHING and will continue to do so should she ever call me again and ask what happened. I don't want to see you or speak to you ever again. Kindly lose my number as yours has been deleted.
-Pissed, in Arlington!
Lesson for the single ladies reading. ASK explicitly if the guy you're dating is or has ever been married. Only the REALLY good liars will fool you - the rest aren't that smart. And no-one should have to get the 7am wake up call that I got this morning.



